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Little did I know when I wrote about trials and testing in my last blog I would be facing some very soon. I am very sorry that I have not kept up with my monthly blog this summer because we have been going through a situation that has made it difficult to do so. I can see the end of the tunnel and things will be better so hang in there and keep checking in. Maybe a comment once in a while will keep me going. Sometimes I'm not sure people are reading my blog anymore. Anyway if you are, hang in there with me and pray that things will get back to normal for me and my husband very soon.
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Trials are situations that test us or break us. I don't think a person can be alive and never have to face a trail of some kind. It could be a health issue or a financial, relationship or even a legal ordeal but we all have been through some kind of trial or another.
Trials are stumbling blocks in our path that we either learn to maneuver around or we stumble and fall. When we face them, we are forced to slow down. In that moment we can become very close to God. When backed in a corner, we are forced to evaluate our situation and the direction of our future. What better place for God to be! In those moments we have to choose, do we allow God to minister to us or do we allow Satan. It's really our choice, this will make a difference in what will happen to us tomorrow and the next day. How things progress from that moment on is up to us and who we will allow to lead us.
So do we allow the dark, hateful, anger of the evil one to fill us with bitterness and hate and possibly apathy-you know that, " oh well I'll deal with it later, it can't be that bad", outlook. Or do we turn our trials over to the one who made us and let the Lord go to battle for us by protecting and guiding us. Choices, it's all about our choices. Our whole life is about our decisions. These decisions determine what kinds of people we will be and what kind of life we will have. I am not talking about material possessions here, I'm talking about joy, peace in our hearts and hope. I'm talking about the love and respect of those around us and the deep- in-our-soul-satisfying relationship with Jesus Christ. These thing money cannot buy and possessions cannot fill.
When we get into a situation or trial what should we do first? Pray! No matter if the situation is by our own consequence or at the hand of another, God is there. I love what Kynan Bridges wrote in his amazing book, Unmasking The Accuser, How to Fight Satan's Favorite Lie "God never judges us by how we start out, but how we end."
I love that. How many of us can say we have never messed up by what we have said or done. By where we have allowed ourselves to go, or by who we let lead us? Many times it's been because we were ignoring that little voice that warned us, "oh I don't think this is right for you!" Nope we ignored it and impulsively stepped into a situation with both feet. So it's not where we started out but where we end up that counts. Let go back to the choices. Once we find ourselves caught up in something, have we thought about how we want this to end up? Are we going to learn something here? It sure didn't feel good, do I want to repeat it, or do I want to change some things? The answers to these questions will decide our future events.
Some of us are hard nuts to crack and we may go through the fire more than once. How do we make a change for good? I have a few suggestions. Remember, I am a student of life!
1. Pray - we will need all the help we can get from the Lord. Repent and ask for forgiveness. Pray Psalms 5:8 Lead me in the right path, O Lord, or my enemies will conquer me. Make your way plain for me to follow. Remember our biggest enemy is Satan. Ephesians 6:12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.
2. You know how boldly and impulsively we sometimes do the opposite of what our conscience warns us not to do? Now turn that around and use it in the right way. Take that quick impulsive response action and do the right thing quickly before your mind is changed by a deceptive force. If we can make a hasty choice that got us into trouble then we can also firmly make a choice to do good. Many times we will know after we have prayed what is the right thing to do, and maybe it's to pray more and be patient-not react, but sometimes it may be to react and do the right thing. Note: stopping and praying can be a impulsive right choice! Eventually is will become an automatic good habit.
3. Surround yourself with Christian friends, church, worship- Christian music. This will help you gather strength and feel surrounded by love.
4. Read and study the scriptures; read wonderful Christian literature. God speaks through people in their writing. Gather wisdom, guidance and develop a positive mind set.
5. Begin to make amends with the people you may have hurt or if someone hurt you, you will need to forgive them with Christ help. Maybe you will need to forgive yourself. Remember freedom comes with forgiveness. It is a gift you give yourself and your future.
6. Start a new future by making good decisions-prayed over decisions.
7. Cut yourself some slack, if you are doing all these thing, you are truly ready to start a new, remember it's not where you start but where you end up!
Look at it this way, failure can lead to success. Trials can lead us to something meaningful and lasting. Life is like inventing, we are learning as we go. If we never have trails what do we ever learn and how can we be more equipped and successful? Thomas Edison was fired from his first 2 jobs and made 1000 attempts at inventing the light bulb before he was successful. Now I hope in life we don't have that many show stopping, life altering trials, but the message is the same. Keep going, keep improving and learning and keep moving in a positive direction. God is our positive direction, for a relationship with Him through His Son Jesus Christ will matter now and for our eternity.
2 Peter 2:9 if this is so, then the Lord knows how to rescue the godly from trials and to hold the unrighteous for punishment on the day of judgment.
A challenge for us all:
Can we have compassion for others? Can we put it firmly in our mind that other people may be in the midst of some kind of trial as well? Can we stop and silently pray for those people that are acting out of frustration and anxiety instead of labeling them a difficult person or someone to dislike. This is hard, this goes against everything we feel but this is in line with what God has called us to do because prayer changes everything and God is in the salvage business. He will salvage our life and he will salvage theirs if we will have the guts to ask Him.
Read James 1:2-4
I love my friends, they are such a blessing to me. Having a special bond with another person in friendship is a true gift. It defies time, difficulty and long suffering. A true friend is a friend through the years and through the ups and downs of both of their lives.
Many of us make casual friendships along the way that bring us joy, but I want to talk about those friends that are as close as family members; those friends that invest their selves in your lives.
With long term faithful friends, there is a mutual and unspoken commitment to care and take time for the other. Even if days or months go by it's as if nothing has changed. Real friendships are genuine, there's nothing phony about them. A person can just be themselves. A true friend is loyal and keeps conversations private. They lift us up when others may be tearing us down and they are always eager to hear from us or spend time with us.
I look forward to planning a day with a friend. Just being in their company brings me joy. I have many friends and as I am writing this, I am thinking about all of them.
Each friend brings something different to our lives, just like our children do. All different, yet very special to us. I truly believe we can't have enough friends but sometimes I find that it's difficult to find the time to spend with each of them. It takes planning and work to call and set something up or send a card. There again, we get out of a relationship what we put into it.
I only had brothers so I don't know the joy of having a sister. Although I use to go to my friends house and her and her sister use to fight a lot and I would leave thinking, "I'm glad I just have brothers!" But that was when we were teens, maybe sisters can be close when they are adults. I know my aunts were close to my Mom so it is possible in some families anyway. My friends have become the sisters.
I have so many wonderful memories of fun times that I have had with my friends. I loved it when we laughed so hard that our ribs hurt. As a kid I remember: summer fun at the pool, playing softball, wading in the creek, riding bikes, fall football games, hayrides and parties. In the winter we went sled riding, ice skating on the pond and to school and youth group activities. When the spring came we were so happy to be able to go outside again-softball practice started and the countdown to summer vacation began. I will have to say we had a blast and it did not involve video games and very little television, just the sure enjoyment of friends and our imagination.
As an adult I have had some wonderful times with my friends as well. We have enjoyed, shopping trips, movies, concerts, lunches, and parties with our families. My friends are a wonderful distraction from the day to day grind of life. They are like medicine for my soul.
What a different time we now live in. It breaks my heart to see the drug problems, violence in schools and so much hate and bullying. I don't think, I know, it all has to do with so many walking away from God. When we have God as a moral compass, we are drawn to be kind and thoughtful and reject the very thought of harming ourselves or someone else. When the schools and parents quit teaching about God and His son Jesus Christ it all became a free for all and the evidence is all around us. I praise God I got to have a fun and safe childhood and that I had wonderful parents that taught me how to be a good friend, sister, wife, and mother. They introduced me to the Lord and that was a gift for my eternality and everything in-between. I was taught that PEOPLE MATTER and God loves them all. THEM ALL! Today, maybe some children are never taught these things so they have no idea how to be a good friend.
I have a few suggestions about being a good friend.
1. Spend time listening to your friend. There will be time to tell them what's going on in your life but be interested in what's going on in their life. True friends know the names of the people in each other's families and are actually interested in each other's life not just their own. In a friendship both parties matter equally. I have to say that I am a lot less close to the people that never ask about my life or my family but talk about themselves all the time.
2. Don't always make your friend be the one that calls, visits or plans times to do things. In order to keep a friendship going both parties need to work at it. It also shows how much you truly care for them.
3. Be a confidant for your friend and keep things private between you.
4. Be the support person for your friend, but be honest. If they are going down a very wrong path find a way to let them know what you think without being mean or hurtful. True friends will welcome honesty. Otherwise, lift them up in prayer and lift their spirits with joy, laughter, praise and compassion when needed. Be to them what you would want a friend to be to you.
5. Be willing to work for your friend, by that I mean, help them out when they are in need. For example, help paint, pack boxes to move, bring meals, or clean their house when they are ill or just had surgery. Watch their children so they can get away with their spouse or a friend sometimes. Possibly even buy them groceries when they lose their job or go through a rough spell. Be God's hands and feet. A true friend won't mind and will do it all with love in their heart.
6. Be willing to forgive. I don't know about you but I'm not perfect. Are you? I have days when I'm off and because of a headache or something going on in my life I just blurt out junk. Or what I say comes off sounding different than what I meant. Maybe I slipped and mentioned something I should not have. We are fallible we sin, we make mistakes. We need to forgive so we can be forgiven. Read Matthew 6:14-15 Isn't the friendship worth something? How would you want your friend to treat you if you stumble? But there is a warning in this Bible verse that needs heeding.
Proverbs 17:9 Whoever would foster love covers over an offense, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.
Don't take advantage of your friendship by repeating offenses. Learn from your first mistake.
There are so many ugly things in life but there are many more beautiful things that come from God and a true friend is one of them. I wrote this a few years ago. "Friendships are the seeds that grow and bloom to make up my beautiful flower garden."
If you love God's gift of flowers like I do, that statement will make perfect sense to you. So tend your garden of friends and watch it bloom and your life will be blessed for it.
John 15:13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
When I think of the word opportunity, I think of grand things like getting a fantastic Job, promotion or being able to go on a wonderful vacation to see and do amazing things. The word sounds too impressive for an ordinary everyday situation. Although, the dictionary defines opportunity as a set of circumstances that makes it possible to do something. When I read that definition, opportunity could just mean that I felt good when I woke up and the mop and bucket were side by side next to the detergent and the water. All the circumstances came together for me to be able to mop the kitchen floor! Not so grand, but necessary.
After a few years I began to recognize that every day is full of new opportunities. Yes many of them may have to do with the day to day ritual of cleaning up after myself, but for some people that function may even be difficult. This is where in the definition it says , makes it possible, changes things leaving some people without as many opportunities as others. Although, I believe as long as we are alive and our brain is functioning, we still have some pretty good opportunities; like being a prayer warrior or a person that mentors and encourages others.
There are four things that I have found that we may need to consider when an opportunity presents itself: 1.) Recognize it 2.) Be thankful for it
3.) Pray about it and 4.) Act on it.
There is no doubt that there will be jobs, new homes and other things that come up that we need to recognize and prayerfully consider, but we also need to be aware of opportunities where we can bring God's presence to others. Through day to day situations, we are often presented with chances to show His compassion and love, we just need to recognize them.
When we are able to set our self aside for a minute, we are then able to see the needs of others. Maybe we could help someone by cooking, cleaning, writing a thank you or get well card. We could carry in our car reusable bags filled with: a pair of socks, gloves, hat, personal hygiene items, a bottle of water, a protein bar and maybe a food gift card for a homeless person we may encounter. Maybe we could volunteer at a soup kitchen or shelter. Opportunities!
One big step that took me some time to be able to do, was to ask a person if I could pray for them. Yes praying for someone at your home is very important, but when we can pray for them as they are there with us, that is huge. There is such a wonderful and immediate impact on a person and it becomes a blessing to them and it blesses us as well. It is awesome! The more we do it, the easier it gets but we need to always invite the Holy Spirit to be in that moment with us.
Be Thankful for Opportunities
Honestly, How often do we stop and say, "thank you Lord for that opportunity?" There again we may do that when big opportunities present themselves. How often do we even consider the small things and stop and say, "thank you Lord that I am able to go and do the grocery shopping and clean my house because I have the time and money and ability to do so", "thank you Lord that I have the opportunity to spend time with my husband, children and grandchildren", thank you Lord that you gave me the opportunity to show compassion to that person in need." The ability to do any or all of those things is more than some people have.
It is so easy to take our opportunities for granted , believe me I know. I have missed out on some pretty good opportunities to help someone because I THOUGHT I WAS TOO BUSY. Wow, later I felt like I was lower than a snake and asked the Lord to forgive me. He gave me an opportunity and I blew it. Living in an awareness of the Holy Spirit presence and in an attitude of thankfulness, will enable us to be aware of all our opportunities and give us the compassionate mindset to act on them when they come along.
Pray About our Opportunities
How important is prayer? Prayer is the foundation that stays attached to God as He moves on our behalf to change things because we pray. So if you can image a tsunami coming our way and we are firmly seated in the limps of a very strong tree while the water moves everything around us, that is prayer. It says in James 5:16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.
I believe many people don't understand how powerful prayer is. When we are faced with a challenging decision or even an opportunity to help someone and we don't know what to do, we need to stop and pray right then, not later. We can ask the Holy Spirit to give us direction on how to proceed. We will never regret the time it takes to pray; in our head, on our knees or driving in our car. Maybe we will have to slip into a rest room for a minute or whatever. Just do it. Pray the powerful Lord's prayer or a prayer asking for what you need in that moment or something as simple as "God I need you now!" I have had some very surprising situations where God put in my mind right then what I needed to do and it changed everything.
Acting On Our Opportunities
I came up with this little quote for our church ministry table. "An opportunity can be a bridge that connects us to God, and God to other people through us. Opportunities to act:
Personal development: It is important to read and study scripture, join a bible study group, share group or prayer group. These things help us grow in Christ but for some reason we often step right over those chances and miss something wonderful. By taking the opportunity to prepare ourselves through study and prayer we are equipped to be God's hands and feet in the world where we can recognize needs and be prepared to act upon them.
Acting on opportunities to help others: We all have the chance to be a bridge for other people through compassionate acts of service and prayer that will encourage people to cross the bridge to Christ for themselves. All this could happen because we took the time to act on a divine opportunity. Action makes things happen, without action things stay the same. Just get up and do something! You have prayed, now go out and do. The more you do the easier it gets. As you bless others, God blesses you, He is so good like that.
Ephesians 5:16 making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.
In summary, opportunities to do good are gifts we give the Father and we are blessed by the giving. There is a warning though, not all opportunities are from God, that is where discernment comes in. The more we know our Bible and the more we pray about our opportunities, then we will remain in the will of God and His best for our lives. There have been times that I acted too quickly and wished I had not. We must be spiritually aware and prayerfully cautious.
Entering into our Easter Season may we take the time to seize moments for the Glory of God and move into a intentional focus on our spiritual self.
I love children, they are so full of energy, laughter and smiles. There isn't anything sweeter than the sound of a child's laughter. To be a mother and have the privilege of enjoying those little arms and hands around my neck was a great source of joy. I believe being a mother was truly my highest calling and my greatest fulfillment. I remember being in the hospital and the doctor handing me my baby for the first time, wow! To me, it was what I would call, a heavenly moment. There were no words to explain it. It was a true gift from God.
With all that we read and witness in public, it is very clear to me that some people do not view their children ( born or step children) as a precious gift, but more of an annoyance or burden. My heart grieves for those children. I often pray for the abused and neglected. If it bothers me so, it must really grieve God. Sometimes I often ask myself, " whatever happened to that mentality that was born in us as it is in the animal kingdom, where parents would fight to the death to protect their offspring?" Where did it go? When did children, our own or other children, become such an inconvenience? How can someone look at a child and not see something precious? My only explanation is that the deceiver-Satan has blinded eyes and hardened hearts to what was meant to be a natural and beautiful thing, into a distorted view of a child resembling a broken toy or a piece of trash, or in some awful unthinkable way, something to be used. This breaks my heart.
Some people brought their babies to Jesus for him to place his hands on them. The disciples saw them and scolded them for doing so, but Jesus called the children to him and said, “Let the children come to me and do not stop them, because the Kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Remember this! Whoever does not receive the Kingdom of God like a child will never enter it.” Luke 18:15-17 (GNT)
My own childhood was pretty good. Even though my parents were in their 40's and I had 6 brothers several years older, I felt very loved and cherished. For a lot of that time I had my parents to myself. My brothers were grown and off on their own. Many of my nieces and nephews were closer in age to me than my brothers were. It is a blessing to be a part of such a large family.
I believe as parents we have the responsibility of molding our children into productive, nurturing and caring individuals that have the confidence that they are someone very special in God's eyes. They must know God has a purpose and plan for each person and that they were not a mistake no matter how they got here. Planned or unplanned all children are known and loved by God.
You created every part of me; you put me together in my mother's womb. Psalm 139:13 (GNT)
Children can be challenging, I know this full well, but we too were children once and sometimes challenging ourselves. I have always thought it had to be this way so that it would be easier to let our children leave when the time comes. It is a normal part of growing up and becoming individuals.
I strongly believe as a parent it is very important to be the wall, a strong guiding rail for our children. The wall that keeps them walking down a safe path to a good life. This wall would keep them from plummeting into the deep dangerous canyon on either side. Sadly we all know of kids that have fallen; some have lost their life and some can still be reached by God's almighty hand, but their life may be difficult. For some reason when I was a young parent, I always called myself the wall. The wall that guided them with wisdom and experience as they passed by it. The wall that provided shelter from the storm. Yes I remember them beating against the wall with all their might wanting to go to parties and other things that the Holy Spirit gave me an inkling that it was not safe or good for them. Yes there were arguments and so forth but I keep telling myself , "BE STRONG, BE THE WALL !" I know I received the strength to BE THE WALL through my time in prayer and reading the Bible. Like - F.R.O.G. - Fully Relying On God. Please know I'm not in any way saying the wall is abusive in any possible way. It is engaging and caring and observant, guiding and respectful but firm in its commitment to keep them safe.
Do you want to read the honest and raw truth? Well here it is: We can't be the wall for our children if we don't love them more than ourselves. We have to have that, I'll give my life for you love, or we won't put up a safety wall or even try to guard it. It takes hard work. To me, my children were worth every single ounce of energy I had to give. Was I always liked by my kids? LOL, what do you think? No one likes the word NO, but it's a life saving word in many cases. I have learned that being a parent it not all about being their friend as some TV shows portray, they can write any outcome in a script and make it look good. It is about being their guardian and mentor- establishing a close bonding relationship. This relationship comes about with a loving and intentional effort to seek daily communication. It also comes about by what we do with and for them. Being a real parent is important because their very future and how it will turn out is at stake.
So you may ask, "are my children's lives perfect?" I have to say no, no one's life is perfect; this is earth not heaven. What I can say with confidence is that they know and understand boundaries and consequences. They know what love feels like and they are able to give what they have been given. They know where to go to find the source of all hope, peace, guidance and love-God Almighty. I must say, God is the lighthouse and I am just one of his caretakers. Even though my grown children may get tossed about in a few storms they have been taught how to follow the light of the lighthouse. It's always there , always waiting to guide them safety back to shore. No matter what age we are, we are all children to God and in need of the light and love He provides that can relieve our panic when we get lost in the storms of life.
We do all this for the love of children but loving and caring for them is also
For The Love Of God.
There is a time in everyone's life when they make a choice to believe or not to believe that God exist. I image most of the time we begin to form an opinion by the time we are in elementary school. When I started thinking about writing on the existence of God, I began to put together in my mind all the things that have convinced me that God is real. There are three things that offer proof to me: the facts, the knowing, and the Bible.
Pretty Amazing Facts
Did you know that there are 60,000 miles of blood vessels in the human body pumping blood through a heart that can keep going for 90 years or more in some cases? This blood carries essential substances, nutrients, oxygen and hormones to our cells and carries waste away. Another incredible fact: When a woman is pregnant, the placenta supplies the baby with adequate nutrition. Blood from the mother goes through the placenta then into the umbilical cord attached, before reaching the baby. It acts like a lung for the baby, allowing the transfer of oxygen. Once the baby has used the blood with the oxygen, the blood goes back to the placenta to get rid of carbon dioxide and picks up more oxygen. The placenta also ensures these waste products from the baby are released into the mother's circulation, which in turn are disposed of through her urine. It also helps to protect the baby from infections because it keeps the mother's blood and baby's blood separate by acting as an effective filter. http://www.childmags.com.au/pregnancy/pregnancy/5385-the-role-of-the-placenta-in-pregnancy
Think about all the different animals and birds, there are so many varieties! They are so beautiful and intricately made. Look at the plants that cover the earth, some provide food for us, they provide oxygen and many other things we need. They are so colorful and fragrant. Now think about the oceans, lakes and mountains. What about the amazing sky , the sun, the rain and snow, the changing seasons. It's all orchestrated so perfectly. Year after year the plants and trees and animals know just what to do. Pure perfection! Music to the eyes and ears.
Knowing these and other incredible facts makes it absolutely logical to me that nothing less than an intelligent designer created all that we see and all that we are in our bodies. There is no way anything so complex could come from any kind of big bang theory or any other explanation of how the earth began. Another interesting detail is that humans are pretty intelligent but they cannot duplicate any of the things God has made without first possessing a piece, seed or DNA from something he has created.
The big bang theory is the most popular of all the other theories about how the earth began. Many years ago I heard this example and I want to pass it on to you.
Suppose you had a watch and you dropped it on the floor and it broke into a hundred pieces. How many years would it take for those pieces of the watch to somehow jump back together and begin working perfectly? Can you conceive it ever happening? Don't you believe that logic would confirm in your mind that it would take an intelligent and gifted watch maker to carefully fix and reassembling the broken pieces of the watch?
Knowing God Is Real
Now what about the' knowing' feeling that there is a God? Have you ever heard someone say, " well I know God is real, I feel His presence." Many people that have never established a relationship with God do not understand that sentence, so let me give you an example.
Let's say you have a pain in your body. You are tested every way possible and there seems to be no test that proves you have a reason for it.. The fact is no one else but you that can feel it. People either believe you when you say you have this pain or they don't. Some may buy into it and others may say, " you're making it up to get attention" or "you're crazy because you know they ran test and nothing proves that you have a reason for your pain." Oh but you know it, you feel it, it's as real to you as your breathing. Now let's relate it to our relationship with God through His son Jesus Christ. When He comes to live in us (by our invitation) it is a similar situation, without pain of course . We know He's there, we can tell the difference in the way we feel, the way we think and the way we choose to act. There is a peace, comfort and joy that's different than anything the world offers. No one around us can feel what is in us, it's not a visible thing. When we try to tell others about it, some will believe us, some people will think we are making it up, and some may say we are crazy, but we know that we know it's real.
The Bible is called the living word of God. It is full of all the details of how the world was formed and the history of mankind. It is full of wisdom and examples of God's love for us. As I read it, I feel God's presence through the Holy Spirit. When I spend time in it, I receive something different each time. Many times it is something that I should know on that particular day. To me it is the third proof that God exist.
When we look at the complexity of everything, the knowing of God the Father, Jesus the son and the Holy Spirit, and what we receive from reading His Holy Bible, there is no other conclusion for me to arrive at than-YES THERE IS A GOD
When a person makes a decision about God then they also must make one more decision; to accept Him or reject Him. When people put off that decision till later, sadly often for some, death comes too soon and they never get the opportunity to choose. That would be the worst mistake a person could make.
A few suggestions:
Study the Bible.
Genesis 1 In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.
Open your eyes and see, smell and taste- let the earth teach you.
Job 12:7-9 “Who doesn’t know that the Lord does things like that? Ask the dumbest beast—he knows that it is so; ask the birds—they will tell you; or let the earth teach you, or the fish of the sea.
Ask God to reveal Himself to you-pray.
Ecclesiastes 3:11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.
I think it is possible that we may need God's help to believe. As the verse says, no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end. We have faith because God gives us the ability by drawing us to Him; we are able to love and trust because God gives it to us. We just need to pray for what we need and let God do what he does best. The story of God could not have continued through the centuries without His presence continuing to make Himself known to us.
Psalm 34:8 Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in Him.
I'm praying for all that read my blog. Let me know what you think of my thoughts. There is so much to write about and share. I do so with great joy. I do so because my creator enables me to, and I am grateful. This February may you find a new love in Jesus Christ and receive a new heart to share with others.
At the beginning of each new year, many of us think of starting something new; but most new beginnings happen at other times during the year. Some things we begin on our own in our timing, and the timing of other things are out of our control. I like to plan things but I know I need to be flexible because often something comes along to delay or derail a plan I have made to start something new. When that happens, many times I get a sense that it's not the right thing for me at that particular time and I know I must stop, evaluate and pray.
There are many things that fall under the category of new beginnings, so I'll start with the obvious like marriage, birth, starting school, starting a new job, a new friendship, a new business or an exercise and weight loss program.
Starting something new can be exciting, exhausting and stressful. We don't always know what to expect and we are trying so hard to do everything correctly. Most of the time we want to make a good impression by doing our best. For example when we start a new job, we have no clue where things are, the rules, how things operate or what is expected of us. Most of the time we don't even know the people we will be working with. For the first 3 to 4 weeks we are in a pretty high anxiety, highly stressful state until we learn the ropes and get to know the people. With every new opportunity we will have a learning period; a time in which we actually find out what we are made of. The thrill at the beginning of each new opportunity often turns quickly into anxiety that eventually turns into a comfortable pace as we become acclimated to our new situation.
So do we fear starting something new or embrace it? Do we prolong or forgo stepping into an opportunity because we know how hard it will be? Do we miss out on wonderful things in life because we are too afraid or too stubborn to try? What things do we need to know to make these situations easier on ourselves? I like what the book of Ecclesiastes says about it.
Better is the end of a thing than its beginning, and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.
I believe this passage is saying it is better to embark on our new adventures with patience. We need to take our time and not jump in all pumped up like we know it all. If there has ever been a lesson I have learned it is that NO-ONE but God knows it all. Along the way we may have learned a lot but we are all students of life. We are all subject to learning from others if we can allow ourselves to do so. God trains everyone differently with different experiences and talents so that we can help and teach each other. We must be open to God working in our lives, not just through the Holy Spirit, but through other people. Our attitude will be the deciding factor. A person may say, "well they grew up in a different time, what can I actually learn from them?" Yes technology and other things change but, humans are as God created them to be, not much has changed in how the human body, mind or spirit operates. You may ask what does this have to do with learning something new? It has everything to do with it because accepting help from past generations of people who have wisdom and knowledge can be our stepping stone to a successful new beginning.
So success in starting something new comes from: careful planning, hard work, willingness to learn, gaining wisdom from previous generations, (from people or the Bible), establishing new relationships, being patient with ourselves and others, praying, and putting our trust in God to guide us and help see us through.
New beginnings are doors we walk through to wonderful opportunities that either shape our life or change it for the better. What I know to be true is that everything worthwhile comes from hard work, perseverance, and trust in God.
At one time, missed opportunities started to become my regrets when God said, "No, No, for I have many more opportunities to give you." Folks we are not finished here on earth until the casket closes.
Dr. Seuss was 54 when he wrote "The Cat in the Hat".
Colonel Harland Sanders was 61 when he started the KFC Franchise
Billy Graham was 96 when he wrote the book, Where I Am-Heaven, Eternity, And Our Life Beyond.
"We often miss opportunity because it's dressed in overalls and looks like work” Thomas A. Edison
Colossians 1:11 being strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy;
In this New Year I challenge you to make God a priority in your life so that He can strengthen you so that you poses the endurance, patience and joy for all the new beginnings you may face this year.
Happy New Year
I think that If we were to survey several people, we would find many different ideas about what worship is. Many of those ideas stem from what we were taught as a child and what we grew up experiencing. Although, often as people mature in age, they begin to study and search for new ways to express what they feel when they connect with God. So how does the dictionary define worship? Worship - to show reverent honor or a formal ceremony rendering such honor or homage . To me, worship is one of those actions that manifest itself from a grateful heart full of love for God. Giving the Lord our praise in an act of worship becomes second nature when we study the Bible and connect with God through the Holy Spirit in prayer.
We seek, and God draws us in. We ask for more of Him, and He gives it freely through His Holy Spirit. I believe we receive according to how much effort we put into our relationship with God. It's just like our relationships with the people around us, we reap what we sow; we get out of a relationship what we put into it.
Worship does not come easy if we are not grateful and we must recognize that It is possible to worship other things. What other things do we adore, praise, cling to or honor? Another question we should ponder is: if we believe in God and go to church how are we worshiping? Do we go out of habit or ritual or do we go to truly worship? Do we sing praise from a joyful-thankful heart, or do we barely even move our lips and feel no emotion? Do our faces reflect joy or boredom? Worship is for God but He blesses us through it.
Psalm 100:2 Worship the Lord with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.
John 4:23 Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks.
The best explanation of this passage I have found came from my Bible Study Fellowship International study of the book of John.
"God desires us to worship Him not simply through outward conformity. He does not accept worship that is merely a system of ritual. He calls us to worship Him in spirit by means of the Holy Spirit. God also holds us responsible to worship Him in truth. This is more than sincerity of heart. We must know and seek to obey God's truth. In the Bible and in Jesus Christ, we have God's full revelation of truth."
I love the story of the Wise men that came to worship baby Jesus. What effort they put forth to seek and find the baby that was both the Son of God and the Son of man.
Matthew 2:1-2 After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the time of King Herod, Magi from the east came to Jerusalem and asked, "Where is the one who has been born king to the Jews? We saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him."
Matthew 2:11 On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh.
Awe the Christmas story. Such a beautiful part of our history and our faith. Aside from all the fun of Christmas, this story grounds us and gives us hope. The Christmas songs praising the new born king fill us with inner peace and joy. Every year I look forward to the music and all that Christmas is about. Yes it's hectic, but beautiful. Sometimes it's hard work, but oh what memories we make. Christmas is the perfect time to tell people how much we love them and to show love to others through our time, talent and gifts. During Christmas and all year long may we also worship our Lord through the service we give to others.
My prayer is that during this Christmas season we all recognize the wonderful gift we have been given and evaluate the truth in which we live.
Merry Christmas & God Bless
Encouragement is the act of giving someone support, confidence or hope. Isn't that what we all need from time to time? But what about us? Is there a way that we can encourage ourselves? I emphatically say, "Yes there is!"
First of all, we must realize a few things: 1) We cannot rely on other people to supply our every need. It's impossible, especially if we are needing positive reinforcement, many times only God can meet that need. 2) In order to be able to encourage others, we may need to be in a good place our self, or with God's help, reach beyond our own situation to help others intentionally.
Two ways I have been able to help myself find encouragement:
1. God's word. When I read it and let it become part of me, it begins to make wonderful changes in the way I think about myself, my abilities, and even the way I look at life. I find it helpful to place the following scriptures where I can read them every day. Positive words make positive changes.
Now when I am down and need a pick-me-up I pull out my encouragement box and rekindle the joy that was in those moments. I offer up a word of thanks to God for those people and those opportunities and ask God to bring more blessing my way as I thank Him in advance for them.
After we fill up our own tank, we can give encouragement to others. We may never know how much someone may need this act of loving kindness. The Bible is full of great advice that teaches us how to love and comfort one another. One other book that I have found to be exceptional in bringing me to a place of positive thinking and encouragement is, "Change Your Words Change Your Life" by Joyce Meyer Hachette Book Group, New York, NY
In her book, she has this quote by Albert Schweitzer:
"Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust and hostility to evaporate."
I also love what she wrote in chapter 18, "Make doing good, being good, and speaking good things your goal in life. If you do, then you can expect more joy than you have ever experienced."
If we purposefully live our life to make other people's lives better by what we do and say, everybody wins and God is glorified.
There is so much negative, ugly and mean things out there these days we don't even have to go looking for it. These things come easily to us through our avenues of media and the places we go. What a difference it would make if people everywhere would show love and kindness and give words of encouragement. The sad truth is that some adults and many children are verbally whipped every day. Can't we all make a commitment from this day forward to begin to offer words of kindness and actions of love as we begin to live with a thankful heart?
I am truly thankful for God, my family and friends who lift me up in so many ways with their love and encouragement. I am truly blessed. Praise God.
It's pretty easy to get discouraged these days when we hear of so much violence and hate, broken homes and abuse. I have to stay in the word of God and in prayer every day. I need that positive reinforcement. In contemplating the state of the world and this country, the following verse came to mind.
Isaiah 55:10-11 So shall my word be that goes forth out of my mouth it shall not return void but is shall accomplish that which I please and purpose and it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.
There are many people that, at one time or another, have heard a few words of scripture from the Bible. They may have heard it from a missionary, a grandparent, their parents or other people in conversation, or even at an event like a wedding. They could have heard a few words of the gospel in a song on the radio or on a TV program when they were flipping through the channels. What if those words would begin to grow within their minds and take hold of the truth and love of God? What if those words would begin to make people question everything?
I believe that questioning is good. It makes us seek answers. It makes us ask God questions like, "God if you are really there reveal yourself to me." "What is this Bible all about and why do I need it?" God is there really a Heaven and what do I need to know to go there when I die?" That spark of curiosity, those questions and pleas are just what our Lord needs to be able to work in our lives. Let me give you a few examples of what I mean.
If you have a child, grown or not, and you never ask them about how they are or what's going on in their life, then how would you actually have a real relationship with them? It takes that seeking spirit, that desire to know them that develops something beautiful in a relationship. If you were to say to your child or even your spouse or friend, "Oh you are here, so what!" It would seem like there wasn't much of a relationship between you. This is basically what so many people say to God, "You're here, so what!" Without nurturing relationships we are unhappy, un-consoled and unsatisfied in our life. Without God through His Son Jesus Christ, we are basically chasing our tails and looking for something. A prime example is the alarming rate of drug and alcohol abuse.
So my first question is: What keeps people from seeking God? Is it, Busyness, apathy or disbelief? My second question is: Why not go searching and find it all? There is nothing to lose and so many wonderful things to gain.
Matthew 7:7 ( Ask, Seek, Knock ) “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
Lord I pray that every word that has been heard or read from your scriptures will now come forth and change people and their lives. As in Isaiah 55, your word shall not return void and it will prosper in the thing that you sent it. Lord my prayer is that people wake up to the truth in Jesus Christ. May the blindness be removed from their eyes and the coldness from their hearts. May the light and love of your Holy Spirit encourage them to ask, seek and knock on the door to your heart so that their lives will be changed forever for your glory. May this be the harvest of your great word.
In Jesus name,
Who is Sally? I have been very happily married for 30 years and we have four grown children and 7 grandchildren.